**UPDATE**Good news attached!!!

Alright, so it's been a crazy last few months.  BM finally gave up in court, giving us every other weekend visitations, without supervision, in our home state.  This just started withing the last couple of weeks.  Although we are getting visitation, and everything is running smoothly as far as that goes, we are still having issues with BM.  She called the other day, and told my husband if he really wanted to see his daughter, he could pick her up EVERY weekend. (We would love that...if we could afford that)  I'm pretty sure BM just needs a babysitter, as she's been having issues with her husband.  Her husband left her a couple of weeks ago, which sent her after my husband.  In all of her fake kindness and sweetness, she took away child support.  She is mad now that didn't work in her favor, so she's messing with the visitation schedule and parenting plan.  It's never a dull moment where she is concerned, let me tell you.  All in all, time is spent well with my step daughter, and my husbands attitude has changed tremendously.  We get to spend our first Thanksgiving together, all of us, as a family this year. Things are good.