Saturday, November 26, 2011
Update: Bad news....
Well, while we have a court order now providing us visitation, I guess that doesn't mean BM has to follow it. We drove 3 hours to pick SD up on Thanksgiving, as agreed, and BM refused to let us take SD. She had decided that she was going to keep her, and gave us no notice at all. We missed Thanksgiving with all of our family, because BM insisted we not pick up until 4pm, and then she didn't show up anyways. This weekend was also OUR weekend. BM decided on Friday to change the visitation time, without our knowledge or consent, and did not show up at the time in the CO. Monday, we have to file a contempt motion, because visitation did not go through today. BM waited to call and text us back, until almost 2 hours after the scheduled pick up time, knowing that we were probably already on our way home. It was a horrible Thanksgiving, and a bad weekend. I'm just glad this time, there is a CO in place, and it is BM who is not following it.
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I am so sorry. What a horrible thing to do! I'd file contempt of court charges against her. She clearly violated a court order and judges don't take kindly to that sort of thing.
ReplyDeleteI'd almost bet money that the judge won't do a darn thing. The holidays will be over soon, keep yourselves sane and happy despite the crazy ex wife's antics! It's too bad she can't see what she is doing to her very own child.
ReplyDeleteContempt charges have been filed, and she should be getting served sometime today or tomorrow. I don't think she sees what she's doing to her own child, because she believes her own lies. For some reason she believes that we CHOSE to "abandon" SD. She firmly believes this, and you can't change her mind about it. She has major mental issues if she's believing these delusions. We're always the bad guy, and she's always the one that made an honest effort. If you read all of this blog, you'll see that's not the case.
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