Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Does it ever get old??...

Recently a friend of mine alerted me that BM was posting on a public forum wall, from her Facebook.  I checked it out, and this is what I read:


Is it the the jealousy of the new wifes or is it truly the babymamas? I FILL SORRY FOR THE CHILDREN IN THE MIDDLE OF THE ISSUE?SOME WOMEN DONT KNOW HOW TO MIND THERE BUSINESS AND THE WIFEY HAS NO BUSINESS WITH THE CHILDREN INVOLVED,BECOMEN A WIFE DONT MAKE YOU THE BOMB WHAT MAKES YOU THE BOMB IS RAISING THE BABY THAT SOMEONE DECIDED TO WALK AWAY FROM,SO YOU WILL ALWAYS BE SECOND BEST.


This is the kind of stuff that really irks me, and always triggers a negative response from me.  Of course, that is not going to happen, because I no longer respond negatively, or at all for that matter to anything she has to say.  Let me just say this:

No. I am not jealous.  I have no reason to be. Yes, it is you, it always has been.  I really hope you grow up, and realize the drama you have and continue to cause one day.  If you feel sorry for the children, then do something about it.  You don't have to continue on will all of the BS.  I mind my own business, it is you that is constantly starting drama, and talking about ME!  Also, my  husband IS my business, as well as anything that affects him.  I don't think, and have never said I was "the bomb".  Nobody decided to "walk away from" their baby either. We have been fighting you in court for 2 years now, and are still continuing to fight.  She'll know that someday.  You are welcome to think of me as second best, but just remember this. The man you are so continuously jealous over, and can't let go of the fact that he left you...He married ME. He lives with ME.  He is with ME.  I support what ever decisions he makes.  We love each other, and have an awesome life together...If that's second best, I'll take it!!